Tuesday, May 31st, 2011
“I wasn’t supposed to come back to Washington. I was happy up in New York and then my mother got sick. She had a stroke three years ago and was never the same again. She passed two days ago. I am happy that I could be up here with her to take care of her. She needed me, and I was happy to do it.
“I left D.C. after finishing Spingarn High School and going to work for a bit on Capitol Hill. I had six uncles on the police force over there and some aunts who worked for Senators Hugh Scott of Pennsylvania and B. Everett Jordan of North Carolina. They helped me get a job as a clerk and messenger for Congress. I would deliver books and alcohol to the Senators’ offices. Back then, I wasn’t even 21, but people didn’t pay no attention to the drinking age like they do now. Now, kids be getting drunk and acting stupid. I tell you, the world has changed. Politics has changed, too. I am really not a politician, but back in the day, if the people in your neighborhood liked you, they put you into office. Now, you got to campaign and travel all over the world to convince people about you. Times certainly have changed.
“After some time on the Hill, I left to go to New York. There wasn’t much opportunity here, but there were jobs in New York. I moved up north to get to some real working and raise my family. New York is a real city where a man gets a job. I started working in a photo lab and then worked as a truck driver. Then, I drove for an ambulance company for eight years until my Mom got sick.
“I miss New York everyday. There, people know how to drive and have fun. These people here can’t drive or have fun. New York has things to do 24 hours a day. Here, I don’t smell no barbecue or see people cooking out, even on holidays. In New York, everybody is partying all the time. Here, it doesn’t look like people are having fun, they are just slagging around and drinking their coffee. D.C. sure ain’t no picnic. To me, people here don’t look like they are having a good time.
“I try and make the best of things here, though. I have a good time with my grand kids and great-grand kids. I teach them right and wrong like my parents taught me. I listened to my parents who taught me to go to work and make an honest living. I followed that system and it worked. I ain’t never been rich, but I’ve always been comfortable. I teach the same to my kids, grand kids, and great-grand kids.
“Now that my mother passed, I want to get out of here and go back to New York. I may go back to driving an ambulance. At 60-years-old, though, it is not so easy to just get a job. I just want to find a way to make some money so that I can travel and watch my kids get grown. I want them to take advantage of the things that I didn’t have. When I was young, I had to take care of my family. I wanted to be a lawyer or a rocket scientist, but that never happened. I want my three kids, nine grand kids, and two great-grand kids to have the right values and believe in Jesus. With that, they can do whatever they want.”

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Pingback by Interesting article about D.C. - City-Data Forum — June 4, 2011 @ 8:01 pm
One thing that annoys me is that many of you think that every white person here is some yuppie. I’m a transplant from a blue collar city. I came to DC and work a blue collar city job and plan and it for the rest of my life because it’s what I like to do. I work for the fire department. Most of my time is spent in areas that aren’t really white at all. I get along great with those people and they get along great with me. It’s starting to get annoying hearing all of these generalizations. You guys do know racism can go both ways right?
There are plenty of neighborhoods with very nice people. When you walk around looking at everything in a negative way, you won’t ever be happy. I love it here and have found plenty of great friends from every race, sexuality, religion, etc.
Comment by ffknight — June 6, 2011 @ 2:07 am
One of my favorite places to see happy people in DC is the drum circle at Malcolm X Park on Sunday evenings. It took 4+ years in this city before I found places and spaces just as good – if not better – than in my hometown. Now it’s hard to imagine living anywhere else: I’d miss Fort Reno, the Florida Ave Market, and all the FREE museums. I understand if you leave but if you do stay, please keep looking! We’re not all bad/miserable
Comment by yup — June 6, 2011 @ 9:58 pm
i’m american and i don’t remnmceod doing all those things they are telling you to do like eating mcdonalds, having guns, and acting dumb.. that is not what america is about! these people are just telling you that to get entertainment out of it. it is about being able to be yourself and pursue whatever goals you wanna pursue in life. for example, if you come from a poor family and you have the dream of becoming a successful scientist one day, then you can! also we share a lot of cultures here
Comment by Faisal — August 21, 2012 @ 2:03 am