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Mistress Domina Vontana on Power Exchange

Tuesday, August 24th, 2010

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“I am a preacher’s daughter from Whitefish, Montana. I grew up in barns, and we would go out on stampedes and round up the young bulls in the spring and castrate them. I saw the force of life from a very young age and was taught not to flinch. Education was a huge emphasis in my family, and there was always that push to seek knowledge. I definitely credit the area where I grew up for a lot of the qualities that now make me a Dominatrix, like hard work, education, and loyalty.

“When I tried to break into the Dominatrix scene in D.C., no one would give me an opening, which is how I ended up stripping out on the Eastern Shore. During that time, I went out to San Francisco for S&M training and really benefited from the networking. I found people whom I could call when I had questions as a young Dom. Three weeks after my Dad died, I put up an ad on Craigslist as a Dominatrix. One of the major reasons I do this work is because I know that my father was submissive. I know that if he had understood himself, he’d still be here today.

People come to me to do all kinds of scenes that include things like rope bondage, impact play, which is everything from spanking with a hand or a paddle to flogging and hitting, and cross-dressing, which is my bread and butter.

“When people don’t accept who they are on whatever level, whether sexual, social or personal, they can do a lot of damage to themselves because of how unhappy they are. I just want every father, mother, daughter, and lover out there to be able to know who they are and honestly communicate that to their partner, whether it is vanilla sex or extreme kink. If someone is coming to me to induce a feeling of shame because they don’t feel comfortable with what they desire, they need to seek a psychotherapist, not me. I only want to play with people who are comfortable with their desires and embrace their identity. I screen people using extreme intuition and patterns. When you are in the business long enough, you learn who the wankers are and you can point them out in ten seconds.

“People come to me to do all kinds of scenes that include things like rope bondage, impact play, which is everything from spanking with a hand or a paddle to flogging and hitting, and cross-dressing, which is my bread and butter. There is so much cross-dressing out there. You would have no idea because someone can just wear panties to work under their trousers. I love edge play, which is the scary, psychological stuff when you get inside somebody’s head and play with their fears. It builds up someone’s confidence. As for rope bondage, I was into rope before I knew about this scene. A pile of rope makes me smile. I think it takes me back to my farm days.

“I also do traditional slave play and service. Some people are really fulfilled and satisfied by coming and cleaning my house and knowing that I appreciate them. It sounds a little unbelievable to those that haven’t experienced it, but it is very sincere. Now I have one boy who is 27 and Jewish and has served me for two years. I also have my little Indian boy. He is 22 and has been with me for a couple of months now. I would love to find a girl, too.

“Being a preacher’s daughter and a Dominatrix, I can see things that other people can’t see in people, including their power. Power is real, and these people in D.C. pack a lot of it. What these people are giving up to me – their will, their intellects, their bodies, their desires, their pocketbooks – are larger and stronger than anywhere in the world. This is the perfect city for what I do. These are important individuals who have a lot of people that rely on them. They spend all day making heavy decisions. When they come to visit me, my ropes set them free. The smallest consideration for the submissive inside of them is enough to empower them to go out and work hard for another three to four weeks. I’m like a therapist, a life coach, a best friend, a Momma who is gonna tell it to you straight. Generally, if they maintain a professional relationship with me, they are also better husbands and partners when they go home.

“I hope to meet someone and settle down someday, as I was disowned by my family. That person has to be very emotionally secure and intellectually sophisticated. When I am out at a bar, I tell people that I am a consultant who works with the military. But when I’m trying to get to know somebody, I usually put it out there pretty quickly. Occasionally, I have a lover of my own who is not freaked out by what I do for a living. A lot of people think I’m a prostitute. All I want to say is that this is so much work with the equipment, the overhead, the cleaning, the supplies, and the sanitation. If I had wanted to take the easy way, I would have done that a long time ago. I pay thousands of dollars every year to attend seminars, where I build my skills. Give me credit.”

Read more about Mistress Domina Vontana here. Learn more about the BDSM community in D.C. from Black Rose and DCTNG.

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  1. I very so respect this profession.

    Comment by Crissy — January 27, 2011 @ 7:01 am

  2. I read your article in the Washingtonian and was very impressed. Also got a huge erection! Drink Rich Schlauch Beer and Chips and you will be happy too!

    Comment by Rick Schlauch — May 26, 2012 @ 6:48 am

  3. Whitefish! Closing in on my neck of the woods. A county subies dream come true for sure, equestrian lady by day & Domme by night! I do know a 23 yr old bigal from Jersey now in DC that most likely would be interested in you. FOXY Peruvian with a goddess body, like you’d have to see her to believe it!!! She’s educated professional too! I have been her personal confident for more years than I care to admit to in public.
    I’ve sent your webpage link to her. She has MINIMAL dungeon experience & I believe is SWITCH at about 50% top psych, 50% bottom psych. She likes strapon with women & desires to peg males but has no pegging experience. She is EXTREMELY “SHY” but an investment for ANY Mistress, just take my word on this one.
    I an so sorry to hear about your misfortune with your family, I really am. I know several lifestylers that have been “disowned’ by family. Ignorance of our lifestyle breeds contempt towards us. Vanilla land does not believe we lifestylers are capable of love… if they ONLY knew the TRUTH, but the managed media has capitalized on the few tragedies that befall our lifestyle every now & then in an attempt to discredit us.
    If you still appreciate the world of equestrian send me an email. I have a few pics of a BIG lady named Casey & her boyfriend ‘Dually’. There’s actually a family of them about 20+ in number… a sight to behold! Best of day to you Domme, give our best to our DC cousins from the lifestylers of the northwest!

    Comment by BOBO — June 14, 2012 @ 7:31 pm

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